Friday, March 30, 2012

Life's Lessons


I chose this image of the Desert Hot Springs Pool Babes because of Life's Lesson #22.
Life's Lessons
I did not write this list. Written by Regina Brett, 90 years old, of the Plain Dealer, Cleveland , Ohio
1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good.
2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.
3. Life is too short ….enjoy it.
4. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and family will.
5. Don't buy stuff you don't need.
6. You don't have to win every argument. Stay true to yourself.
7. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone.
8. It's OK to get angry with God. He can take it.
9. Save for things that matter.
10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.
11. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present.
12. It's OK to let your children see you cry.
13. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it.
15. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.
16. Get rid of anything that isn't useful. Clutter weighs you down in many ways.
17. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger.
18. It's never too late to be happy. But it’s all up to you and no one else.
19. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer.
20. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save it for a special
occasion. Today is special.
21. Over prepare, then go with the flow.
22. Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple.
23. The most important sex organ is the brain.
24. No one is in charge of your happiness but you.
25. Frame every so-called disaster with these words 'In five years, will this matter?'
26. Always choose life.
27. Forgive but don’t forget.
28. What other people think of you is none of your business.
29. Time heals almost everything. Give time time.
30. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
31. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
32. Believe in miracles.
33. Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.
34. Growing old beats the alternative -- dying young.
35. Your children get only one childhood.
36. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.
37. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.
38. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's, we'd grab ours back.
39. Envy is a waste of time. Accept what you already have not what you need.
40. The best is yet to come...
41. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
42. Yield.
43. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift."

Thursday, March 15, 2012

Art

I was lucky enough to spend a day with my sister and her friend, Sox (Socrates) in Palm Springs a couple of weeks ago. Two very talented ladies. The photo is my first ever fabric/lace project (unfinished). When completed it will hang on the wall in my studio. I'm looking forward to spending sometime in the studio so that I might perfect my new found passion (of the month). Also thinking about getting out my jewelry tools, wire, resin, beads, found objects and see what else I can create.

Could this be you?

Cara, could this be you?
My Daily Routine:
Get Up,
Be Amazing,
Go Back to Bed.

Tuesday, March 13, 2012

Nature Speaks

Absolutely incredible. Sister Karen took this amazing photograph two days after these little hummingbirds hatched. Karen takes the most amazing photographs. If you've never seen a hummingbird nest (I had not), they are somewhere between the size of a golf ball and a tennis ball. The eggs were about 1/2 the size of the tip of my little finger.

Owen and I returned today for a visit. I was shocked to see the nest was gone. Only ragged remnants remained. It has broken my heart. My first and hopeful thought is that the nest had blown out of the branches it was nestled in. But the word I heard Owen mutter was 'cat'. And now a whole new vision is implanted in my mind. A very unpleasant one. Nature works in wonderous ways. It gives and it takes. Harmless little baby hummingbirds, named Kahlo and Diego. Jo Ann and Roy had named mama hummingbird, Frieda.

Sunday, March 11, 2012

La Quinta Art Festival

Looking my best for my 2 day stint as a volunteer Ambassador for the LQAF. 230 artists from all over the US and 1 Cdn. plus 270 volunteers. It was upwards of 82°F, more than 100,000 patrons, and works of art in the $1000's. People were shopping.
These are so me. I had to have them.
Artist: Denise Robertson, NM
Something I could afford!
A gift from Randy Strong ~ glass blower extraordinaire! Randy is recognized as a leader of the American Studio Glass Movement. He is the winner of the 2005 and 2008 Niche Award, being #1 in the Nation. His sculptures are a part of collections ranging from the Corning Museum of Glass to the Louvre. Owen and I both saw his 'A life Lived At 2300 Degrees' slide show and talk where he touched on his 45 year artistic journey.

Saturday, March 3, 2012

Pizza

Carmelized Onions, Pear and Gorgonzola Pizza. Yummy!

Saturday, February 18, 2012

Winter in the Desert

In the depth of winter I finally learned that there was in me an invincible summer. Albert Camus
True story: Okay, what is going on, for real. This is my dear friend, Char, who lives here in Hidden Springs in the winter. She is from Albuquerque, New Mexico and her blood is warm. Obviously, real warm. I was in shorts and this is Char coming home from the pool on a windy/cloudy day. I think it was only 66°F ~ warm for me but not so much for her.

Tuesday, February 7, 2012

Passing Time


The moon dog sky. Wow, the ring around the moon is filled with stars. It's a phenomena caused by reflected sunlight. A visit from Jeremy. We talk. My emotions are healthy right now but I can't believe how I can spiral, funneling downward at a drop of a hat. Yesterday I heard someone call 'Mommy' and I had to give my head a shake.
The days are a blur. It's an amazing life style. I keep thinking there should be some substance but then realize it's okay to just drift and it feels good. I stay pretty active socially. It's in my nature anyway, but I know I'm doing it so I don't have to be silent and alone.

Thursday, January 19, 2012

VYING FOR THE OSCAR

The Best Foreign Language Oscar nominations played at the PSIFF. All 9 nominations where shown in PS unfortunately we did not see any of them but are really happy with what we did see.

Bullhead
Monsieur Lazhar
Superclasico
Pina
A Separation
Footnote
Omar Killed Me
In Darkness
Warriors of the Rainbow; Seedig Bale

Wednesday, January 11, 2012

News

Within the past 24 hours I received the good news that Jer's BF/bro, Mark and his partner, Jennifer, are going to be starting a family. Brought tears to my eyes. This evening I found out that Sarah is engaged to Evan. Brought tears to my eyes. I know that Jeremy would be smiling. He would want only happiness for Mark and for Sarah.

Tuesday, January 10, 2012

PSIFF

Palm Springs International Film Festival
Our selection of 9 films. Some foreign/international with subtitles, some not so foreign. Some low budget and some not so low budget and some syndicated; such as, Albert Nobbs and Salmon Fishing.
Terraferma - Italy * * * *
Subtitled
Award Buzz for Foreign Language film
A political powder keg sparks intense drama in Emanuele Crialese's latest tale of working class Sicilians. On this occasion, Crialese's protagonist is Ernesto (Mimmo Cuticchio), an old-fashioned fisherman on an island that's quickly turning into a tourist trap. Happening upon an imperiled boatload of African refugees, he selflessly rescues a handful of passengers and hides them from the authorities. Meanwhile, Ernesto's daughter-in-law (Donatella Finocchiaro) and grandson (Filippo Pucillo) agonize over the potential repercussions of harboring illegal immigrants until one of them is driven to commit a horrendous crime. Well-versed in the customs and concerns of Sicilians, Crialese has helmed a film that's rich in authenticity and generous with its insights. Furthermore, the writer/director possesses a gift for seamlessly incorporating front-page issues into the fabric of an intimate family drama. In a narrative rife with struggles—whether it's Ernesto's efforts to preserve his failing livelihood or the immigrants' hazardous pursuit of a better life—the most compelling conflict found here is undoubtedly the one between traditional values and an increasingly callous world. (When Ernesto, the elderly Sicilian fisherman recues a boatload of African immigrants, he must decide whether to do what the law demands or what he knows to be right). Three generations of family struggling with what is correct and right. Excellent.
Albert Nobbs - Ireland * * * * *
Starring Career Achievement Award winner, Glenn Close
This beguiling tragic-comic tale has been a labor of love for star Glenn Close, who first played the title character on stage 30 years ago, cowrote the screen adaptation with Irish novelist John Banville, and also served as a producer on the film. A nineteenth century Dubliner, Albert is the headwaiter and butler at Morrison’s Hotel. Long in the employ of the proprietor, Mrs Baker (Pauline Collins), Albert is an impeccable servant, but an odd, lonely man who keeps himself to himself. And no wonder, because he’s a she, so used to passing as the opposite sex for employment purposes that s/he is now virtually sexless. But Albert’s life isknocked sideways when fate and Mrs Baker insist on sending another man to share her bed…. Close pulls off this demanding role with virtuoso delicacy and restraint, but it’s hardly a one-man (or one-woman) show: the stellar supporting cast includes director Rodrigo Garcia’s In Treatment protégé Mia Wasikowski as a pretty maid Albert takes a shine too, Brendan Gleason as the house doctor and the great stage actress Janet McTeer in a revelatory performance as Albert’s initial foil and ultimate inspiration. Superb!
Sons of Norway - Norway * * * *
Subtitled
The director, Jens Lien was available for Q & A.
Is it possible to rebel when your free spirit father supports you unconditionally? This bittersweet coming-of-age tale, well directed by Jens Lien (The Bothersome Man), is the funniest, most poignant Scandinavian dramedy since My Life As A Dog. The action takes place in the 1970s, in an Oslo bedroom suburb. Surprisingly, one of the architects behind this tidy, dehumanizing, concrete development is Magnus, a rambunctious hippie with rather unorthodox ideas on child rearing. When a sudden tragedy nearly immobilizes Magnus, (his wife dies when she is hit on a bicycle by a motorist), his teen son Nikolaj channels his rage and alienation into punk rock. Pierced, pomaded and prickly with attitude, he challenges the status quo of their suburban hell in ways that rile the town fathers. The unusual father-son relationship provides many of the film’s laughs (especially during the twosome’s summer holiday at a Swedish nudist camp) as well as Nikolaj’s more frustrating moments. The uninhibited Magnus doesn’t seem conscious of the line between father and friend, and he crosses it once too often for sensitive Nikolaj. Well depicted love between mother and son. Excellent but disturbing.
Holidays by the Sea - France * * * *
No Dialogue
A tribute to Jacques Tati’s classic comedy Mr. Hulot’s Holiday, Holidays By The Sea is a chucklesome bit of whimsy. With no significant dialogue, this mix of skillful physical playing, judicious comic timing and absurd situations heightened by smart camerawork, editing and production design follows a cross-section of French types as their paths intersect during a weekend at the coast. First witnessed on their way to the shore, the characters include a retired couple, a pair of leather-clad punks, several families in a caravan park, a traveling salesman meeting his mistress, and two sets of unhappy spouses whose holiday is unexpectedly spiced up by a runaway kite. Besides plenty of erotic adventures, the action embraces games of golf and scrabble, life drawing, funeral rites, a visit to a nudist camp, and a near-hurricane. Rabaté comes from the world of graphic novels, and his sharp visual sense gives rise to numerous witty sight gags. With weather and landscape proving as important as the characters, the jokes revolve around modes of transportation and accommodation as well as l’amour. Winner: Best Director, Karlovy Vary Film Festival. Excellent.
Salmon Fishing in the Yemen - UK * * * * *
Starring Ewan McGregor and Emily Blunt and Krisin Scott Thomas who was fabulous.
With a script from Simon Beaufoy (Slumdog Millionaire, 127 Hours) based on Paul Torday’s bestselling novel, this witty rom-com revolves around the effort to make the impossible possible, as a reticent bureaucrat (Ewan McGregor) joins forces with a determined legal representative (the delectable Emily Blunt) to introduce fly fishing into the Middle East. McGregor stars as Fred Jones, stuffy government fisheries scientist who is reluctantly drawn into the seemingly ludicrous effort by a fishing-obsessed Arab sheik (Amr Waked) to introduce British salmon into the wadis of the Yemen. At first resisting the proposal, he is pressured into going along with the plan at the behest of senior diplomats, who are intent upon gaining the sheik’s favor. Urged on by the Arab’s British rep, Harriet (Blunt), Fred is ultimately won over by the sheik’s passion for the sport, which he believes brings him “closer to God”, and hopes it will do the same for his countrymen. As the mismatched Fred and Harriet embark upon their task, a different sort of sport gains their interest… Directed by the modern maestro of cinematic whimsy Lasse Hallström (Chocolat, My Life as a Dog), and boasting a brilliantly brittle comedic performance by Kristin Scott Thomas as the Prime Minister’s PR maven, Salmon Fishing in the Yemen is a true delight. Superb!
Cloudburst - Canada * * * * *
PSIFF favorite Thom Fitzgerald (The Wild Dogs; The Hanging Garden) evokes virtuoso performances from Oscar-winning actresses Olympia Dukakis and Brenda Fricker in this uproarious dramedy about two women – lovers for 31 years – who must go on the run in order to stay together. Dukakis plays Stella, an antagonistic, foul-mouthed old bull dyke who lives with her long-time lover– the near-blind and slightly dotty Dot (Fricker)–in their bucolic home by the sea. When Dot’s neurotic granddaughter Molly shows up, announcing that she’s putting Dot in an old folks home, Stella throws her out, giving her an earful in the process. Not to be put off, Molly returns with a policeman and takes Dot away, leaving Stella bereft, but not beaten. Stella soon breaks her out of the home, and the two head for Canada to get married, picking up a young hitchhiker on the way. Thus begins an alternately poignant and riotous comedy that has much to say about the true nature of love and commitment. Incredibly foul language, maybe a little too much but necessary to give the movie the punch required. A touching love story. The director, Francis Searle was very candid and told us quite a bit about the filming which took place in Nova Scotia. The fellow that played the young man, Robert Preston, spoke of being sandwiched between Olympia and Brenda for 36 days in a truck while filming. We also learned that the stunt man who ran naked from the house had his first speaking part for this film. It was because Francis and Robert (as well as the cinemaphotographer) were forthcoming that the Q & A so was interesting. Superb.
Happy New Year, Grandma - Spain * * * *
Subtitles
In this hilarious black comedy, Maritxu, a harried and highly-strung Basque woman, is becoming exhausted by the demands of her elderly mother Mari. Maritxu won’t hear of putting her in a nursing home, so her husband takes her on a vacation and conspires to have Mari taken to the home by his daughter Miren and son-in-law Kintxo. The plan backfires when Mari runs away. Kintxo tracks her down at a luxury hotel and has to take her into his home. The old lady is a terror, manipulative and vindictive, so he starts to consider a drastic solution. In his first solo outing as a director, Telmo Esnal works from a cracking script he cowrote with Asier Altuna (who codirected their previous film together, Aupa Etxebeste!). With a superb ensemble cast, led by Joxean Bengoetxea as the bumbling, put-upon Kintxo, Esnal creates a world populated with beautifully rendered, realistic characters increasingly driven to despair by the conniving grandma, played with quiet—and not so quiet—ferocity by Montserrat Carulla. Turned very black with the Grandma took the hammer to Kintxo's dogs and went off the tracks. Grandma calling Maritxu non stop added humour and the twist. Excellent.
Old Goats - USA * * * * *
This unlikely comedy follows three cantankerous old guys in the Pacific Northwest. Although they are more than occasionally grumpy old men, they’re mostly just guys who are embracing what’s left of their lives with gusto and a heavy dose of humor (and infectious bs). Old Goats is the often hilarious and always heartfelt bromance of three older men (actors Bob Burkholder, David VanderWal, and Britton Crosley, playing themselves) who refuse to go gentle into that good night of retirement and old age. Bob is in the process of writing a memoir about his life as a soldier, while David does what he can to evade the prying eyes of his wife. Meanwhile, Britton, the most active of the bunch, tries to find true love on the internet, his efforts resulting in one of the film’s funniest scenes. Shot in a style similar to Mike Leigh’s Another Year (but with a microbudget), Old Goats finds humor in the everyday foibles of retirement life, providing a refreshing perspective on the golden years through the eyes of three men who don’t feel (or act) as old as they should. Taylor Gutterson, David VanderWal and the actress that played Britton's girlfriend, too the stage for a Q & A. We found out that Taylor did the camera work with a friend and shot the film for $13,000. Obviously the actors weren't paid. Taylor found the leading actress working as a teller at his bank. Superb and was voted best of the fest.
Sandman - Switzerland * * * *
Subtitled
An entertaining, playfully surreal modern fairy tale that’s like a cross between Kafka, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, and nothing else we’ve seen before. Boasting wackily appealing acting, visuals and music, writer/director Luisi’s laugh-out-loud comedy explores the discrepancy between what every person could be and what he or she actually is. One fine morning, arrogant stamp collector Benno finds sand in his bed. At first he tries to ignore the mess, but he soon realizes that the sand is coming from him. As he sheds more and more sand, his limbs start to vanish. Day after day the amount of sand increases and soon his time literally starts running short. Finally Benno is left no choice but to ask for help. Sandra is a frustrated singer who runs a small coffee shop underneath his apartment. Although Benno hates her with a passion, he starts dreaming about her every night. What could Sandra and the dreams have to do with the sand? Winner: Audience Award, Filmfestival Max Ophuls. Great story. Funny and excellent.

Saturday, December 31, 2011

Happy New Year 2012

Happy New Year 2012
Happiness deep down within.
Serenity with each sunrise.
Success in each facet of your life.
Family beside you.
Close and caring friends.
Health, inside you.
Love that never ends.
Special memories of all the yesterdays.
A bright today with much to be thankful for.
A path that leads to beautiful tomorrows.
Dreams that do their best to come true .
Appreciation of all the wonderful things about you.

Friday, December 30, 2011

An Apple A Day





Ouch. Owen woke up one morning pre Christmas with a sensitivity to hot and cold. He calls the insurance company, his dentist at home and then a dentist in Desert Hot Springs. He visits Dr. Yu and has a consultation and xrays. It is determined that the filling in one of his teeth in the back is 'breaking down' and that he needs to keep an eye on it and come back if it gives him anymore grief. Two days later, eating dinner with June E, out comes a huge chunk of tooth connected to a filling. And you can guess which one.
Well mention dentist in southern CA and a whole raft of people can recommend dentists across the border where the prices are increcible. To have a crown done in the US (and Canada too), I think you are looking, at the very least, $1200. In Mexico, $250. Las Algodones is a 3 hour drive. Upon arrival to this little border town, that thrives on touristas with hawkers selling pharmaceuticals, alcohol and souveniers, we come to a ginormous parking lot. It takes us longer to walk across the parking lot than it takes us to walk across the border into Mexico. Owen is visiting Dra.Laura Quintero. Well, come to find out, there are actually 4 people with varying degrees of education and aptitude that work on him. After much pulling, yarding, jamming and mucking about in Owen's mouth, they sent him on his way but not without a root canal and temporary crown and an appointment to return for a permanent crown. He was also in a lot of pain and was prescribed pain killers and antibiotics.
Long story short. Owen has his root canal but won't return to Mexico for dental work again. Did I mention I had tons of fun shopping for the 2.5 hours Owen sat in the dentist chair?

Thursday, December 8, 2011

An evening at the art museum

The Palm Springs Art Museum is lovely. Andrew Wyeth (one of the best known artists of the 20th century) was the guest exhibit. He was an amazing artist. No pictures allowed. But I did take a bunch of photos in the other rooms and exhibits for your visual enjoyment including a Chihuly piece. My favorite is the 1st one shown. I was gobsmacked. She looked so real. Lots of mixed media.

Thrift Store Finds


We are renting a sweet little double wide trailer (shhhh, oops, I keep forgetting the locals like to refer to them as ‘manufactured homes’). It’s old, has character, fresh white paint, new windows and new French doors that open in front of the ninth hole green. This is a great community and we enjoy the folks that live here year round and the snowbirds. Our landlady, Marsha, who resides in Sechelt is decorating in blues, yellows and splashes of red. Cute. Yesterday I went thrift store shopping and the items shown are additions for the house. $20 later and voila!

Wednesday, December 7, 2011

Keeping Jeremy's memory alive

A note arrived today to touch base, say hello, discuss how the family is, etc. It ended by saying "Nadine, I want you to know, that not a day goes by that I don't think of my dear friend Jeremy. I miss him so much!! You can be proud that you raised a real fine, honest, hard working, and generous and loving man. I shall always miss him! I am grateful to have known him and been his friend." It's notes like these that make me smile and cry and I love the fact that we are keeping Jeremy's memory alive by continuing to discuss our love for him and his for us. Thank you Jim.

Smile

When life gives you a hundred reasons to cry ~ give life a thousand reasons to smile.

Monday, December 5, 2011

Green Chili Stew

Had the best homemade organic 'green chili stew' tonight for dinner complete with tortilla's, pinto beans and red sauce on the side. Thanks Charlotte and Char.

Saturday, December 3, 2011

A Cultural Day

We've heard about the Tamale Festival since we arrived and so this morning decided to check it out. 160,000 people visit this event annually over two days and it boast the Guinness World Record for biggest tamale. We happened upon Lucy's Tamale Factory who has won awards for the past 3 years. The tamales were tasty little morsels. Unfortunately Owen's didn't agree with him and he has spent the night in bed. It could have been a bug of another kind, but who knows for sure. What are those little traveling carnivals with merry-go-rounds and ferris wheels called? Well they had one of those, music, beer garden, vendors, lots of people and because of the wind, a lot of swirling dust. We didn't stay long.

Art Under the Umbrella

Also on our tour today we visited Art Under the Umbrella at Old Town LaQuinta, a unique old town on the east side of Palm Springs. Some amazing fine art. I met a warm and generous artist by the name of Lauretta Lowell from Palm Desert who did magical assemblage. See her work at whimsicalcuriosities.com. Owen visited and was intrigued by Tom Thornton, a Fine Art Woodworker. See his work at tomthortonwoodworking.com AND Bob Fulton who did garden art and you can see some his work below in the photo of the art balls. Pretty darn cool. I'm meeting with the LQAF on Monday and hope to volunteer with them through the winter.

The LQAF, La Quinta Art Foundation, mission statement; In keeping with our mission of Promoting and Cultivating the Arts,La Quinta Arts Foundation will present an exciting slate of activities for the 2011-2012 Season, celebrating our 30th Anniversary. We are committed to provide innovative cultural events, learning and self enrichment opportunities for Coachella Valley residents and visitors. Creative partnerships with artists, musicians, local business, civic and charitable organizations ensure delivery of successful programs to the community.
Visit their web site at LQAF.com.